You don’t have to be an asshole

You know, just because I choose to put myself out there does not make it OK for you to be an asshole and bully me online. I am human. I have feelings and you being a keyboard warrior just makes you look weak, jealous and horrible.

How would you like it if your child was bullied online? You wouldn’t. So what makes it okay for you to bully me?

You’re judging me, my life and my story, all based on one simple opinion piece you’ve chosen to read for one reason or another, generally re-posted by another media outlet using a controversial headline, aka click bait to lure you in. You haven’t once bothered to learn anything about me before making some dick bag remark. They allow comments because that gains more traffic and discussion for them. You comment and say I have too much time on my hands to be a blogger. Um, snap. If you have the time to be going around commenting on the likes of stuff then you sir, have too much time on your hands. If you have to create a fake name lisafrenchfries69 then you clearly have no balls and wouldn’t say it to my face anyway.

Here’s an idea, if you don’t like me or what I choose to share and write then don’t fucking read it! This may surprise you but I don’t actually do it to please you or to gain validation from strangers.

You have to develop a pretty thick skin to put yourself out there like I do (along with lots of others). That doesn’t make it okay for you to abuse me and say horrible things about me or my family. We are people, just like you. We may not make the same decisions you do but that doesn’t make you any better than me.

I can say your comments don’t bother or hurt me, but they do.

Maybe next time you’re drafting some shit reply, stop and think ‘am I being an asshole?’. If yes, go get a hobby and get off Facebook (or Stuff).

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